Hello all,
This is the first post I’ve ever written and I’m not really sure how to make this short and spare all of the messy details, so here it goes. My relationship is fairly new and I’m at a point where I’m trying to decide whether or not all of this is worth my time and effort. My boyfriend has a close group of friends and one girl in the group has slept with a few guys in the group, including my boyfriend. I feel like I was hit with a double edged sword. He told me to alert me of this, but I feel like now that he’s told me I have a lot to deal with and try to handle. We hang out with his group of friends often and it makes me extremely uncomfortable and so I’ve expressed my discomfort with the situation. Upon hearing my feelings/thoughts, he told me he didn’t know how to handle the situation. He feels that if he tells her my discomfort she will communicate this with the entire group and that they may “resent” him. I just don’t know what to do and I’m really struggling with finding it in me to accept these things and whether or not it’s worth it.

All of your feedback would be greatly appreciated.