What Do You Do When You Don't Know What To Do

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    Abril Quintana

    When you don’t know what to do, what do you do? I am at a very confusing, exciting, and stressful stage of my life. I am 21, currently homeless but not in the way where I am poor. I have no home. I live out of my car, its been like that for 7 months now. I got fired a week after my 21st birthday. I am going to school because I am getting paid to go. I don’t know what career I am trying to pursue. I have a boyfriend who I love to death, first boyfriend to live with and to be with for more than a year. He’s my first real boyfriend and he does anything and everything for me. But I am not the best girlfriend, I have a wandering eye. I love to have a good time. People who see my social media think I am having the best time of my life and that my life is “lit”. Most people love to see what I post next on my snapchat story, other people think it’s long. But anyways, I don’t know what I should do. I went on a cross country road trip this past summer but had to cut it short because funds ran out. I want to “run away” for at least a year and start a new life because I wanted my life to end but I don’t want to kill myself to do that so next best thing is run away and make a new life… I want to go to Oregon, I didn’t get to reach that state and it was one I really want to see. But I guess I just want to figure out if I should stay where I am and do another semester of school, get this money and then go to Oregon only as a two week vacation or just up and leave everything (boyfriend included) and run away to Oregon for a whole year. And possibly keep in contact with people here or completely cut everyone out of my life. What to do, what to do…



    Dear abrizzle:

    Competent psychotherapy would be a thing to do when you don’t know what to do, starting with a session or two. Do that before you take extreme measures.

    Why do you live out of your car- and not with your parent/s or your boyfriend, or friends?




    Dear abrizzle,

    What is required from YOU will be known only to YOU and from YOU.
    Only your heart will know what is best for you at this time. External factors of life, negative emotions, life experiences, and several other things suppress this inner guidance system that we have in our soul.

    I will share with one such wonderful technique that will allow your heart to guide you to the best that is required from you at this moment.


    Please practice diligently and be open to insights that you may come across.
    You can use this practice as and when you like on a moment-to-moment basis to know what is needed to be done at that moment.

    Best of Luck!

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