Take a sheet of paper and draw four circles, one outside the previous one, and all ascending in size. Now, label each ring accordingly: What others think of me; physical traits (skin tone, body type, hair, clothes you wear, etc); mental traits (quick to anger, happy-go-lucky, etc); and lastly, soul/other/???
Now, fill in your traits according to each category. What do you discover when you ask yourself, “Who am I?”