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    Finn
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    Being a senior in highschool I have dated many girls and have had flings as well. The thought of falling in love never crossed my mind. However, during october of 2014 I met this girl who had gone to our school for 4 years. She was a shy girl from europe who didn’t talk to many people and only dated older guys. I always had a crush on her and decided to start talking to her in november. We instantly connected and we started dating shortly after. I realized she was the one, She was everything I wanted in a girl and I never had feelings like this before. When we started talking she brought up that she was graduating early and moving back to her home country to attend college. I knew the risk of this but I could not keep away from her. We proceeded dating and as it became much more serious her plans had completely changed. She had decided to attend college near where I was going and that she was going to stay in America. Our plan was set and this possibility of endless love seemed almost certain to happen. However, she went back to europe just for what was going to be a month, to just visit friends and family. She has fallen in love with her home again, something she said was certain to not happen. Now all of our plans are uncertain and she has to decide whether to stay here and for us to be together or to stay in her home country and go to school there. She has no clue what to do and I understand the difficulty I am just lost and very saddened by this all. I don’t know to do, this is eating away at me. Please give your advice.

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    Ashley Arcel
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    Hello,

    I read your post with great interest and attention and would like to suggest the following.

    It is obvious for her to be attached to her family and Im glad to know that you are supportive of it.

    Give this relationship some time and let her make up her mind on this. If she decides to come over to the US then things will be back on track, but if (I hope not) it is negative – then try to speak to her to understand how much she wants to stay. And if it turns out that she really has made up her mind, then its better to move on and end this one beautifully.

    Hope this helps.

    Ashley

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