Menu
Announcement: Wish you could change the past? Learn to let go and create a life you love with the Tiny Buddha course!

Tiny Wisdom: On Giving a Gift

“Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. ” -William A. Ward

Everyone likes to be appreciated, yet research shows we are collectively quicker to place blame than offer praise. Perhaps it’s because we’re wired to seek solutions to problems, which means we need to recognize things that aren’t working.

But relationships aren’t problems to be solved. They might come with their challenges, but inherently they don’t need fixing. They need nurturing, and it’s our job to do that.

Today make it a point to express all the gratitude you feel, even for little things. Thank the barista not only for your coffee but for serving you with a smile. Tell your coworker how much you appreciate that she’s so thorough and conscientious. Express your gratitude to your sister for always asking how you’re doing.

Whenever you feel grateful, put it into words. It’s amazing how a small expression of gratitude can brighten someone’s day and remind them there’s a lot they’re doing right.

Photo by Joel Bedford

See a typo, an inaccuracy, or something offensive? Please contact us so we can fix it!
Profile photo of Lori Deschene

About Lori Deschene

Lori Deschene is the founder of Tiny Buddha and Recreate Your Life Story, an online course that helps you let go of the past and live a life you love. Her new book, Tiny Buddha's 365 Tiny Love Challenges, launches on October 6. Pre-order now and you'll instantly receive $300+ in free bonus gifts. For inspiring posts and wisdom quotes, follow Tiny Buddha on Twitter & Facebook.

Announcement: Wish you could change the past? Learn to let go and create a life you love with the Tiny Buddha course!
×

Want stronger relationships? Pre-order Tiny Buddha's new love book (and get $300+ in free bonus gifts!)