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  • October 21, 2014 at 9:46 am #66575
    Chris
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    I have seen first hand improvement in my life by using the law of attraction. Positive thought given life can cause very real results. But my absolute fear is that my day dreams of my rape fantasies about my girlfriend could cause them to actually happen. My girlfriend knows about them and is fine with them, mostly they involve other people raping her in situations she could actually be in.
    And because their not exactly negative thoughts I fear they could take form. My last girlfriend was raped after being with me under the same circumstances. I know how big of a stretch this is but I just fear for her safety. I could never live with myself of something happened to her. Do you think this is probable?
    Sorry to bring a dark topic to this forum but I’m legitimately worried.

    October 23, 2014 at 9:48 am #66678
    Will
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    No, I think that would be extremely unlikely. Please stop making yourself crazy.

    Even if your girlfriend was raped, that would not in any way be blameable on you. Remember that when somebody is raped, the person responsible for that is the rapist, and no one else.

    October 23, 2014 at 10:43 am #66687
    Chris
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    Thank you for the honest answer Will. It’s just a worry of mine. I know where the fault would be but I don’t in anyway want to make the situation any more likely.

    October 24, 2014 at 2:14 am #66724
    Will
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    I don’t think you would make it in any way more likely, but perhaps you could experience some relief from your worrying by affirming to yourself and the universe that you do not wish for anyone to be raped, your girlfriend, other women like her, any women, any person.

    Perhaps there’s even a rape/assault/abuse helpline or a campaign in your area that you could support to make it clear (to yourself, to the universe) that that’s where you stand, and your fantasies are not wishes.

    To be clear, again, I don’t think that your fantasies have any effect on the probability of your girlfriend or anyone to get raped. It’s just a suggestion to help you not be so worried, because worrying sucks. My best wishes to you and her.

    November 11, 2014 at 8:05 am #67681
    Kris
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    I also have rape fantasies but I have no desire to actually BE raped (except ya know, roleplay) They’re just fantasies, that’s all they are. Sexuality is just weird like that!

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