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    Brian Cyr
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    I have a problem with friends. When I make friends I make them relatively quickly because I’ll text or talk to them a lot. But after a little bit, I find it hard to find things to talk about, it becomes hard to maintain a friendship because I start to talk to the person less and less and eventually we just grow apart and only talk when we run in to each other. It’s happened to me countless times and now it’s happening to my best friend. I started hanging out with her at the beginning of the summer and I don’t really hang out with anyone else. I could really use some help because I don’t want it to end like all the other times. Thank you

    #81187
    Adam P
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    Hey Brian,
    If the problem you’re having is running out of things to talk about, then you just need to find new things to talk about. Say when you’re driving and you see that you are running low on fuel, do you sit there/ or keep driving worrying how you are going to solve the issue, no. You automatically know you have to get to a station and refuel your car. The same can be applied to you. Your body/mind is similar to a car and whenever you are running low on things to say/ or do with friends, ou know to go refuel. Refuel by however means you need. Whether it’s learning a new skill/hobby to talk and teach your friends or just go and do a new activity or visit a new place with your friends. With your best friend, there is still time for summer fun and if not autumn is also great with all the fun activities (corn mazes, pumpkins, Halloween). There you go Halloween is a great time. Go to a party with your best friend and show her and others that you have become very interesting. Relate to others and be as diverse as possible and you should be able to maintain friendships.
    Thank you and take care.

    #81194
    Anonymous
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    Dear Brian:

    What are the topics you are interested in talking about? What makes you curious and want to know more, share more, learn about? What topics do you find boring, not interesting, maybe even hard to follow (too difficult to process, as in too many details)?

    How deep do your conversations with people go? Do you and them talk about feelings and personal problems and challenges?

    anita

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