When my ex girlfriend dumped about 2 months ago the first thing I wanted to do was to try and get things back to normal. That was a huge mistake and I ended up hurting myself in the process. If you are willing, forgive him but if you think that spending time would negatively affect your emotions and well being, don’t. You don’t owe this person anything and it’s not worth getting hurt over if you think that will happen. On the other hand if you can be friends with this person and be happy, I encourage you to do so. It’s clear that he’s giving you the power here, so use it to your advantage, I hope this helps! Good luck!
I want to be friends so this pain will stop. I thought that I could take a little time to grieve and just be friends with her but it’s not going to work that fast. I cannot bear to be around her or even to look at her or see a picture of her on Facebook. Whenever this happens I immediately shove it out of my face and start to freak out. My heart sinks like a rock and I lose all focus. I’m scared I’ll never be able to feel better around her. I could be having a good time with my friends and if I see even a glance of her my joy dissipates. I try to occupy my mind as much as I can but the second it isn’t I start thinking of her and it hurts. It has been almost two weeks and I feel I have made no progress but it looks as if she was over it the day after, and that makes it hurt even more.
Thanks for all your help! It feels good to have some reassurance! 😀
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