Hi there,
I just broke up with my bf few days ago. It wasn’t really bad, we didn’t even fight but the situation was complicated. I will not mention about my country and his country here. Just want to let you know that we are from 2 different countries, and my country culture is kinda like China while his is a Catholics country which is hard in divorce. He got married with a woman and had a son. However they were separated. His ex wife is a dual citizen, so he did marry her in 2 different countries. The son is with his mom in Aussie. After separated with her, he moved back to his country where I’m living and working there. We were in relationship for 7 months until 2 weeks ago i told him that my mom want me to get married (i’m 26 fyi, he’s 31). He was a bit sad and last week he said he wanted to talk with me. He told me that we should control our feeling as friends again so if thing isn’t going well, we don’t get hurt a lot. He told me that it is really expensive for him to divorce with his wife, and he’s afraid that he can’t see his son again since his visa to Aussie is quiet depending on her, and he want to bring his son to stay with him… Further than that, he wants me to experience getting married and have peaceful life. Because he knows it would be really hard for us. and if the relationship is too long, the more we will get hurt. He said that he don’t want to drive me to his messy life… And we decided to not see each other again. He did cry a lot.
However, I felt really bad. I don’t know what I should do now. Should I try to get back together with him or move on? I really need your advises. Thank you