Dear kl292:

You are not being difficult; you are having a difficult situation, this fixation or obsession. I can try to figure it out further with you, if you’d like. To do so I will ask questions. The question I have in mind right now is this: how is it that you didn’t discuss this with your parents so far, all those years since this incident?

Why do you think it is that you are asking me on this thread whether to talk about this with your parents… why haven’t they be the first place for you to go to when it started?

anita