Dear indigobb:

I am assuming your reply: “Yes, please do” is for me. Therefore here are my questions:

How old are you and how old is she (you mentioned “a major age difference”)?

You mentioned a “two year affair”- to clarify the word Affair, were and are the two of you single people, not married or living with a third party partner?

What makes you believe that “she is just not ready for me ye”?

How could you tell, in the future, that she is ready for you? How could her readiness for you express itself: how does it look like, sound like?

anita