Dear weepingdragon:

I hope you find a way to love and be loved by another person. I know you were born lovable and loving- I have no doubt about that. Somehow along the way you lost faith in love, and understandably, I am sure, due to bad experience. And somehow along the way, you stopped being loving, you stopped listening to others (like those responding to you here), you became very rigid and very jaded and closed.

I hope things will change for you, that you will heal and then become softer, open and available to love and be loved- the way you were… in the beginning.

You are welcome to post again anytime. If you post with nothing new but the same old same old “I am unlovable, worthless and nothing anyone can say will make a difference” message, then I will not say anything anymore, because indeed, as you expressed clearly, nothing I say will make a difference for you.

If you do post again, I will read your post and if there is something new, some openness, I will respond, otherwise, my best wishes to you.
anita