Dear Butterfly:

You are welcome. I wish you got a refund (good point!) I wish we all got refunds when injustice happens to us, as is so often the case.

Excellent point in wishing you could get a refund. I suppose there is an attachment you have to the fact that you already invested so much in him and it is hard to move away with nothing to show for all your caring and investment, is it so for you?

Let’s say you are literally in a theme park and the single rollercoaster ride there made you sick 100 times in a row. Each time you feel dizzy and you vomit. But you stay in the park because you didn’t get your money value yet. You are waiting for the ride to be enjoyable so you can justify the $20 spent for entry fee.

There is no refund, unfortunately, so do you stay in the park, getting on the ride yet again in hope that this time you will not get sick?

Or cut your losses and prevent more loss by… leaving.

anita