Dear anyakhan:

Crying hysterically often in two separate romantic relationships, repeatedly over long period of times, followed by seemingly minor events or no events at all is an expression of deep hurt that needs to be attended to in psychotherapy with a competent, empathetic therapist. You need insight into that deep hurt: what is hurting you so badly?

Once you gain insight into the origin of the hurt and you feel empathy for yourself for having been hurt like you have, then the emotion of hurt would have delivered his message and would stop persisting to express itself through hysterical crying.

anita