Dear Anita’

Somewhat you are right let me give you some background. we dated for two years and the whole time he never trusted me eventho i rearranged most parts of my life to accommodate the relationship. I made him my priority i really tried my best but e was always paranoid he doesn’t want me to go out see my friends. he has logged into my Facebook messenger and my phone message to check.and he has been verbally abusive and also once he slapped me because i was late. but he always cries after and says sorry. the reason we broke up is one time he came and said he had a dream that i was cheating and started interrogating me as if his dream had a meaning…
once i decided to break it off he kept texting me and calling me and showing up at my place with out notice. but he was not aggressive but just begging and crying. After that I agreed to be friends because he has done some good things during our relationship. but after that I dont feel okay about contacting everyday and i don’t want to lead him on. But at the same time I feel so much pain seeing him cry and beg me. he says he will never give up on me and sometimes i think he is trying should I give him a chance but if I do it would be out of guilt. and i see his posts he is so happy with his friends but when he comes to me he becomes so sad complaining about family and other stuff. every time i tell him im busy he says hes not feeling well or something. I feel like he is intentionally creating this sad story to guilt me into dropping everything to come to the rescue which i do all the time because i feel responsible somehow.