Hi charlotteccnc,

Wow, your friend has the best of all worlds, doesn’t she?

She gets to

1. Keep your relationship a secret
2. Have a boyfriend AND a girlfriend, and
3. Tell you to NOT go far away to study for YOUR FUTURE!!

Imagine if she were a straight male with ALL the privileges. What would the average person tell a girl whose boyfriend wants to keep her a secret, have a second girlfriend AND tells her not to go do her post grad studies so HE can be there when SHE gets emotionally upset??

Dump her Charlotte, she is NOT emotionally safe for you to be around.

Blessings,

Inky