Hi, I think youve mis understood the situation , he left me ! I gave him opportunities to come back , he said he wants me he doesn’t he does and finally after weeks of causing me on the verge of a breakdown , he finally said I want to live on my own yet you say he’s being used ???. He offered to pay for the house as he understands he caused the situation , which I did thank him for and I am grateful
i understand he’s going through a crisis but for my own sanity I have to move on , he’s given me no green lights , I’ve had texts saying he still misses me etc but in the next breath he says he’s got lots of trips planned and has an exciting future
Maybe I’m reading the signs wrong but I can’t be hurt again
I take the point about the ego