Hi prakashraj,

Feelings are just that: FEELINGS. Next year you might not have feelings for her at all, who knows? Feelings do not mean you get to stalk her, harass her or make her feel bad. Because guess what? She has feelings too. No matter how strong your In Love feelings are, her Indifference trumps that. Every time.

This is what most men do when they know a girl’s out of their league. They “put something in the bank”. They grind. They kill 1000 Level One Rats and in a few years they go up a Level. Which means that whenever they see the girl they smile. Give her a compliment. Wave. Tell her about the party coming up. Help her with her homework. But they do only one of those in a casual way when they bump into her. And never everything at once. And they don’t stalk her.

The other thing people do is give it TIME. She may be all that when she’s in school and young. But after she graduates? Maybe not so much as she’d like to imagine. And later at 30? She’ll be GLAD to run into you as you won’t be “that guy” at college anymore! You will be up several Levels by then!

So let her go for now and maybe in time (I’m talking a year plus) see where she is.

Blessings,

Inky

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