Dear blkhwkdwn1:

You wanted to have no contact with her for a while, she didn’t respect your wish and contacted you anyway. Then she contacted you less and less often. Is it that you want her to not contact you at all OR contact you often, one way or another, but be persistent, reliable, predictable?

Your sister wants you to pay her phone bill so she can keep texting you? Isn’t it her choice to text-or-not-to-text, and pay for it if she chooses to text? I wonder why paying her phone bill was assumed to be your responsibility.

anita