Dear floating:

You kept writing that you are selfish and I don’t see it valid- doesn’t read to me like you are selfish.

It seems to me that you and him were in love with each other, your interest in each other was Love. On the other hand each one of the families involved, their interest is Power. His parents, his father anyway, is interested in having power over his son (your ex boyfriend) and your parents are interested in having power over you.

His parents were successful so far and he, your ex boyfriend, expressed to you clearly that he doesn’t see nor plan a future for the two of you. He maintains an acquaintance relationship with you, at best. This is his decision. He made his choice.

You feel very much alone, understandably. You miss the connection you had with him. I guess he was your only closeness.

We all need closeness with someone. So without such, I understand why you have “trouble getting over this breakup” (the title of your thread).

Where to go from here…?

anita