Dear shanthipriya:

You are going through the pain of separating from the object of your attachment, from this man. You can hardly breathe, you wrote, or eat or drink. This is the nature of the ending of a relationship where you experienced a strong attachment.

But there is a “place in this world” for you, outside this relationship. Sometime you may meet another man who will see you as “wife material”- who will value you highly, as much as you value him.

anita