Hi Anita,
Apologize for the late reply, didn’t notice there’s a 2nd page. After reading your comments, it becomes clearly on the reason of my ‘inadequate’ needs in my relationships. I am not given much attention and love in my childhood and thus, I pinned all my dreams and happiness to the man of my life, never realizing these causes stress to the man, which kills the relationship.

I beginning to be more aware of my ownself, beginning to see the core reasons of the failure of my relationship. If I am still not out of these ‘trauma’ in my childhood which are still haunting me even now, I will never get into a healthy relationship.

Thank you Anita. I will find out more about competent psychotherapy.