Hey Azouz,

Its up to you whether or not clubbing is a deal-breaker, as everyone has their own activities (and should, for a healthy relationship). But there are a lot of red flags in the relationship. She is being manipulative and it seems that you may be incompatible. What are you looking for out of the relationship? Do you believe you are making the proper strides towards that and that she is a good partner for you?

You said “The very first foundation of our relation has been completely demolished.” Do you believe you can get that back or that you are just drifting and clinging on to memories? It is good to do a check-up with any relationship*.

*Noticed your last comment about No Contact so you can disregard some of what I said.

Just know your emotions are normal for grieving. Revenge is you living well and healthy.