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June 20, 2017 at 4:47 am
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Inky
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Hi Macy,
You tried. He knows how you feel and that you tried to fix it. His kids know how you feel and that you tried to fix it.
Now you need to drop the rope and let them have their own relationship with each other. And you don’t need to have a relationship with them yourself.
If you continue to interfere, the issue (for them) can become about you, and not about the real issue. People love to concentrate on distractions rather than the thing they should be concerned about.
Just tell your BF that you are here if he needs you.
Best,
Inky