Kaylon

At the end of the day, it’s your life and your decision. If you think the decision you made was the right one, than that’s all that matters. I just see a lot of people putting the boyfriends on a pedestal and ignoring their friends…than “if”it doesn’t work, they go back to the friends, and it’s kind of hurtful to some friends as if they are the back up plan. I was in no way knocking you I was only trying to give you some polite advice…if it came across that way, sorry for it. I hope your relationship with your boyfriend works, and the waters calm between you and your friend. Since you feel you made the right choice, than explain that to your friend and maybe suggest how she should stand up to her family about her coming out of the closet about her sexuality,  but let her know you support her, maybe not in a way you will always be there physically but emotionally . Maybe she finds strength in you, that she doesn’t in others and was leaning on you for support..maybe she doesn’t have the strong self esteem you have.

Your thoughts?