Martha

It is not love when someone abuses you. When you love someone, there is a mutual respect, a deep friendship, mutual attraction. I personally think you should leave this unhealthy relationship. By staying is saying you will accept this ongoing abuse…and that your self love and self respect is not a priority. Right now you need to put yourself first..and your happiness. People say they will change..sure for a bit than they go back to the way they were. You will find someone who loves and respects you as you would to them…than that’s a happy and healthy relationship. Put it this way, if you had a young daughter who was in a relationship like you are in right now….what would you say to her?

I think you know what the answer to this situation is…find the strength to do what’s best for you.

Macy