Dear wildoceanflower:

You wrote: “I hate not knowing what the truth is”- well you know the truth in what you stated regarding your mother: “I think she doesnt seem to see the sensitivity in the things she says…because its not happening to her. Thats the only way i can explain it”-

That is the only way I can explain it as well. Very simply and truly stated.

This means she didn’t and doesn’t see you; she doesn’t look to see what is happening to you, in you. That makes you invisible. She doesn’t see you. And then, you don’t see yourself.

And then, here I am, corresponding here with you, and I can see you. Can you imagine that, I never saw you in person, but I can see you.

anita