Hi Angie,

I’m sorry to hear you are going through this. This man sounds very unhappy with himself and life in general. He looks outside himself for women and things to make him happy, and it does, but briefly, thereby, he “dumps them” to make matters worse, he blames his problems on you and other people. If he did this to you twice, he will most likely do this to other women, it’s like a vicious cycle. He won’t be happy, because happiness comes from within. I don’t know if he had a bad or traumatic childhood, but this is a very unhealthy, unstable man and only he can change, with professional treatment and counseling. He may also have some sort of mental illness such as ADHD, where he bounces from woman to woman and drifting aimlessly in life or have unresolved depression. It is best not to have any contact with him, as he won’t change, does not sound like he wants to, and you would be resentful and unhappy in the long run. Its best to learn from this. You did nothing wrong, so please don’t blame yourself and count yourself lucky you are not in this toxic relationship anymore. You deserve better, a stable loving man who knows what he wants.