Sorry to hear about your situation but glad to hear that your taking the steps you need to take to be safe and take care of yourself.

If its unacceptable for you to live with a person with a drinking problem, then that is your truth and there is not much more you can do until and unless your husband comes to terms with his demons.

I think you have done what you needed to do and that all you can do in the time being is respect the space that was created.

Very much recommend the book ‘How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving – by David Richo if your ready for that kind of thing