Dear Mina:

You wrote that “the worst thing that can happen is I will turn our current relationship into something really bad”-

I am not aware of there being a relationship. In my last post I referred to it as an “inactive relationship”. In realistic terms the relationship is non existent. It exists only in your thoughts and feelings.

It is your thoughts and feelings about the past, now-non-existent relationship, that may change and turn “into something really bad”, not the relationship itself. Because, as I pointed out, there is none.

The question then is are you willing to open your mind to what is true and real and let go of convenient thinking, of wishful thinking- are you willing invite reality into your thoughts and feelings?

anita