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    ManSOOr
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    Is it safe to watch YouTube videos in which women appear in skirts, bikinis, nightwares. I mean casually, like you were just browsing through you feed and they just came up. I can tell you that even if I watch pretty normal videos like a newscaster in tight T-shirt and short skirt who is doing her job or an informative one that happened to include a female demonstrating me doing things like bending, stretching. Occasionally you watch excersice videos and a women appears jogging or doing some excersice in sports bra and shorts. All of that I think I am just watching but that can change my mood, my thinking patterns forcing me to think about myself over what I am doing.
    I want to get myself out of this because I am a student and their are others things to really focus on without losing it. How do I go about doing things on social media. What would be a better way out of this?

    #168966
    Eliana
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    I don’t see any problem with this, but there are most likely better ways to spend your free time other than surfing the internet looking at women, especially if it makes you uncomfortable doing so. What makes you think you may do this? Is it boredom? Lonliness? Do you have a girlfriend? Why not join an online dating site? There you can talk and chat with real women. Do you have anxiety in social settings with women? Dating? Is this something you can talk about with a mentor or counselor?

    Why not do other things with your time? Go for a walk in a park, see a movie, go to an espresso shop, a bookstore, the beach, a concert, an art gallery, so many things you can do..go out with friends. Have some fun. Don’t worry so much about being successful, a billionaire, as stated in another thread, because you can’t take any of that with you. Being successful isn’t about money or prestige at work. It won’t make you happy. What makes you successful is what you give to others and the legacy you leave behind. Giving your time to others in need. Do you want your tombstone to read “became rich at work” or “made others happy, and touched people’s lives. So, best thing to do, is get out..off the internet, “you tube” and go enjoy your life and people.

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