Hi Struggling,

I re-read your post, others may not agree with me, but I feel all our opinions our valid, but you should read them carefully, and always decide what’s best for you. We are not in this relationship, you are. I feel there is a difference between “good ole kidding around” “and sarcasm” and emotional abuse. The words “take a hike” to me is not sarcastic, it’s emotional abuse, because it hurt your feelings, made you sad and lonely/ confused, and then when you said “where do you want me to go” again, he was unkind. I don’t find anything in the form of kidding around, he was disrespectful. This is no way to talk to someone you love. If someone talked to me this way, I would have packed my bags and left. I won’t tolerate being talked to like this. It’s emotionally abusive.

Nor he did he try to make amends, cuddle with you, nothing. Pain or no pain, it’s no excuse. If you are in that much pain where you are going to mistreat someone, then he needs to let you go, so he can get his pain taken care of, physical therapy, steroid shots or whatever the case may be. I feel he needs time alone. He is not capable and can not Give anything to a relationship. I think you deserve better.