Yes Anita, I just answered.

What makes me feel lesser is knowing that love is not enough. There are other factors that are pragmatic which I seemed to fail at. My ex and I were engaged, and when I left him it was a huge and hard decision. I often felt that I wasn’t the woman he had envisioned, I wondered if perhaps this is why we had so many issues from his side, therefore I couldn’t imagine why he wanted to marry me. In the relationship he is now he has everything he wanted. So, I feel lesser, because that love was not enough and it didn’t carry us through. Not the way his new girlfriend is set up to succeed. And that is something most girlfriend’s should know, the ex is not always someone to fear.