Dear Gigi:

He values prestige, and his current girlfriend has the prestige he values. What he doesn’t seem to value is loyalty, so he has not been loyal to you and is not loyal to her.

People are motivated to seek what they value. It reads to me that he is like a little boy throwing tantrums, crying and wailing, saying something like this: I know I have the girlfriend with the prestige, but I want this girl too. I want them both. And then, I want this girl and that girl. Why can’t I have them all…

Maybe I can…

anita