Hi Ina,

I second what Anita has said, I have to do this, although with my current partner we communicate so well I haven’t really found myself in these situations, as much as I did with my ex boyfriend.

I think what kind of concerned me from your post is that you’re both long term Buddhist practitioners but communication & anger seems to be a big problem for you both. Do you meditate around these issues? Do you not communicate about this circular dance you’re in? Do you not have respect & compassion for each other just as much as those around you?