anita,

after talking with my sister, i understand more so why she would find the inkling to micromanage. when my life stops being so problematic, per say, since she is involved in every matter, we think that she will do this less. it is impossible for her as my sister to not act the way she does when there hasn’t ever been a real break of me not having problems.

we also discussed how as i get better, sister can work on (and myself) this brainwashed image we have of me as a damaged soul. it will  come.

anyway, sorry for butting in to your thread sister. just thought it would be helpful for finding your root.

continue on!