Dear freddo:

You are welcome and I am glad you are back with another update. Reads like you are looking forward to having your kids move to France this summer, but less excited about their mother making the move.

You asked if “it will be possible to forget what happened and start a brand new relationship?”-

I don’t think it is possible to forget, neither do I think that you should forget. You should be open to a new experience but that will be possible if you learn from the past (not forget it) and operate more effectively in the present and the future.

You need your past experience with her in your memory and understanding. You will need to further communicate with her, to understand her motivations and state of mind and life.

If you would like to share more about her motivation in making this big move, from Argentina, from what is familiar to her, to France, please do. Also, what makes you feel uncomfortable about her move to France?

anita