Dear Cali Chica:

Now unlearn the untruth, that is, relearn. Learn now what is true.

When your thinking and believing is congruent with what is true, your life experience will improve greatly.

Another mix of truth and untruth: she told you that she moved to this new country so to give you a better life.

Truth: there are better opportunities in the new country to make more money for a lot of people than it is in some other countries. And she may have been motivated to make it possible for you to become a professional so that she can tell  others that her daughter is a medical doctor (?)

Untruth:  Her motivation when she immigrated, when she became a mother and throughout  three decades of living as an immigrant and a mother had nothing to do with the emotional well being of you or your sister. How you feel, whether you suffered, that was none of her concern.

anita