Dear Niya:

You wrote that you know that it is wrong to have a relationship with a married man. But you don’t feel that it is wrong, I figure, because you were so unhappy and troubled before you met him. But since you met him, you feel much better. So it doesn’t feel wrong. Am I correct?

Would you like to share more about the distress before you met him, you mentioned drugs and sleeping around. What was that about?

And is that distress gone now as you still have contact with him and are waiting for the holiday scheduled with him in two years?

anita