Dear lost in the wild:

The police told you that they can’t block her entry. But maybe the immigration authority can. Check with them.

You called her and tried to convince her…. You asked her to show you a letter… wrong moves on your part. She held a pocket knife and reached for your knives when she visited you in your own home, holding you hostage.

You don’t negotiate with a person who reaches out to knives and threatens violence. You don’t call, ask, try to convince. These are all mistakes if your motivation is to protect yourself.

The title of your thread is “Healing from abuse!”- can’t heal from abuse while you are engaging the abuser in your life.

anita