Anita thanks so much for taking time to respond you have no idea how much I appreciate it.

I have reached a point where I want to start making changes in order to move on and I do not know how and which direction I should head? I want be able to put an end to this pain inside of me I cant forgive myself for cheating at the same time I know I do not regret loving Mike those feelings are real and nothing like I have experienced. But I do not know how to let go of him I want to start somewhere.

I am going to try telling my husband to try a different method to help our son be better at Golf I hope he listens.