Dear Buddi:

You feel hurt by his mistreatment of you and naturally you feel angry at him. Feeling angry at him does not make you a horrible person. Or a good person. Just a person.

Regarding the consequences for his actions, this is how I see it: the reason he mistreated you (and unfortunate others in his life) follows him having been mistreated himself. If he had a loving childhood, he wouldn’t have proceeded to mistreat others on a regular, consistent basis as he had.

So the consequences you wish he suffers- they happened already- before he met you. They came before.

anita