Dear RoxySue:

I was quick earlier to assume that he is honest with you. His statements read honest, but taking them as part of his overall communications to you, his behavior, he is not honest, after all. His statements in isolation point to an honest man, but a man is more than the statements he makes.

I wonder if he feels comfortable making those statements (paying his dues to honesty, sort of), comfortable enough to continue a dishonest behavior.

anita