Hi Jen,

They always say when “we are not looking” love will find us. Right now, sometimes we try to hard, sometimes men can sense this, and can be scared off. I guess the truck is to focus less on dating or finding “the one” and just enjoy your single status. Try to enjoy some hobbies, passions, volunteer work. Maybe dabble a bit on “online dating sites” but don’t take them too seriously. When you find you are enjoying yourself and your single life and happy, men will be attracted to that, and before you know it, you will be getting dates. Try to remain patient. God has good things in store for you. x