Dear Denise:

“kicks to (your) rear end” is not what I will offer you in my reply here or, if we communicate further, a kick to your rear end is not what I will offer you at any time.

What you need is not more aggression, not the aggression you inflict on yourself and not aggression inflicted by others. Aggression is probably what got you to google “feeling lost” and to have arrived here.

You don’t want to persevere, you wrote. You want out. Out of your dead end job, you mean, correct? And you feel that the only way for you to get out is to get a college degree?

If so, how long did you think that you need a college degree, did you do research as to what subject to take on and what college- what did you do- or not do- so far in pursuit of the college idea?

anita