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AnonymousDear Casey:
It is my understanding based on your posts that he is experiencing lots of distress living with or close to his family. Since he is back there, you mentioned he suffers from depression (“He gets depressed easily in his home country”) and you mentioned his mood swings and snapping at you.
Your drama only added to his drama living with, or closely interacting with his family in Singapore.
A key sentence that supports this understanding of mine is in your original post: “in the UK, he needed a work permit to be able to stay. I’ve never saw someone try as hard for it as he did.”
He really wanted to stay because he desperately did not want to live close to his family, is what I am thinking.
anita
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