athena,

You implied that your husband is not inclined to work on your unhappiness in your marriage.

If that is the case then start taking steps to help yourself.  If you are truly want out of your marriage then start planning on how you are going to make a life without him as your husband.

Plus you can start working on yourself in how to be happy.  Find things to do that gives you satisfaction and gives you joy.  Focus on that.  Work on how you can build your own wealth so you don’t have to be financially dependent on him.

Mark