Dear None:

Welcome back.

As I understand it,  one night you felt sad, drank too much alcohol, passed out, and were taken to a hospital. This guy was around you part of that time and following the incident you spent hours with him through the night. In the morning he gave you a hug which made you “feel really warm and kind of happy as (you) have not received such an affectionate attitude for a long, long time.”

Months later, you are wondering if to initiate contact with him, and you added: “I am not good in relationships neither in realizing somebody likes me as it seems far too good to happen”. Did I understand correctly?

In a previous post you wrote that your mother told you repeatedly that people use you, or are likely to use you and that you are naïve. Do you believe her, and if you do, is that the reason that it seems too good to be true that a guy will genuinely like you?

anita