Dear boots2018:

No, I didn’t suggest you should move away from this job, only that you don’t cross that line. I suppose you are proof that at any one time a woman can desire two men. Same for a man, desiring two people (or more) at the same time. Well, the same week, not necessarily the same one minute or hour.

To not lose sight of that line to not-be-crossed, better not let it fade gradually, as it has, flirting and such. You and him can have a conversation and decide on do-s and do nots, rules of behavior, from now on. And then, having this list written or in your minds, follow it. One hour, one day at a time. This way, you will put some distance between the two of you and that line.

anita