Dear jaonna:

I thought your mother and her partner broke up and that is why she was living with you, in the flat that belongs to her. Are they back together and is it possible that she will move out?

I understand what you mean by self harm, more thoroughly. I know a bit about it because there were incidents when I hit myself too, hit my head against the wall for the purpose of feeling pain. Or more like it, to … show the pain in the inside by bringing it to the outside, making it visible, not hidden.

There is something about experiencing hidden pain that is unseen by others, unnoticed- it being so intense and at the same time invisible.

What happened with the man coming to your place just now, share if you would like.

anita